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How to Get Her Back: Top 10 Winning Strategies

by on Jul 22, 2013



Out of sight, out of mind might not be the best way to go if you want to win her back. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. She needs to know that you are not moving on to another girl. Instead, show her that you are channeling all of your time, money and energy into winning her back.

Even if you broke up, one of the top 10 winning strategies to winning her back and reconciliation is keeping in touch. Prevent each other from drifting apart, by keeping the up to date contact information handy, like email and phone number.

You can win her back without overwhelming her with borderline stalking tactics. Instead do this:

  1. Be helpful and shoot her an occasional email with an interesting article
  2. Email her an educational program she might be interested in
  3. Text her a cute picture of a kitten
  4. Text her from time to time: “hey, how is your day going so far?”
  5. Give her a reason to call you in time of need
  6. Invite her for coffee once in a while
  7. Be aware of the things you should never say to a woman you love
  8. Make sure to keep track of her birthdays and anniversaries with a calendar

At this stage, attentiveness is your main card. Play it well. If you have ignored, neglected or have been distant and uninterested in your gal, you’ll need to pay very close attention to her needs. Ask how her day was and really listen to her response. Be honest with her at all times.

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