Your female lover needs to be appreciated; women expect that and thrive on it. If you want to win her back, show her the appreciation. There are a lot of ways to appreciate her for the moments, gifts, attention, time, love, support, care, physical attention, sex, laughter, kids, housework, beauty, intelligence, the list can go on.
To win her back you can show her appreciation with understanding of what can improve your relationship. Anything from a hand picked wild flower, to a foot massage, to a simple “thank you” is enough as long as it is frequent, and from the heart.
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