Don’t Be Deterred By Her Emotional Walls. For women who had painful childhoods and negative experiences with men, may have built emotional walls. However, a woman’s emotional walls can and do crumble with time and love.
Stephan suggests something profoundly beautiful that he believes is true about women: “Women naturally give of themselves. As a man, if you pour into a woman what you need, she will naturally give. This isn’t necessarily true with men.” According to Stephan, unlike most men, women are innately nurturing, caring and attentive. A man who isn’t discouraged by a woman’s emotional walls, but is challenged by them, can bring down those walls, and experience deep, loving, tender emotional intimacy with a woman who, in return for his love, will pour her own heart into the union.