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Top 10 Things Smart Men Will Never Say To The Women They Love

by on Nov 11, 2013

Do you know what not to say?

Relationships are full of missteps, which is one of the reasons why many are so unsuccessful. People Magazine recently reported on one of Reece Witherspoon’s worst first dates, where her blind date analyzed her speaking habits. This led to a very sudden end to the date, before a relationship even had the chance to begin. Unfortunately, many men are clueless when it comes to relationships and have no idea how their actions will be perceived. Many of these actions are such a turn-off to women that they will completely change how the woman views him, which could lead to serious problems in the partnership.

10 things smart men never say to a woman they love

1

YOU'RE A REAL HOTTIE

From a male point of view, this seems like a perfectly innocent compliment. The truth is that women prefer to be complimented on something specific. Keep these comments on bodily features above the neck, such as her eyes or hair, to start. The word “hot” implies sex and even though you have been together for a while, the woman might not want to be treated as a sexual object; at least not all the time.

2

HOW DO YOU WANNA SPLIT THIS?

Once a relationship meets a certain point, it is implied that one of you pay for the entire meal. That does not mean that you have to pay every time, but you should be prepared to pay at least half of the time. There is something non-intimate about splitting the bill at any point of a relationship.

3

I'D LIKE TO BE FRIENDS WIHT MY EX

Not every relationship has to end terribly, but no woman wants to compete with an ex-girlfriend. There is simply no reason for you to bring an ex back into your life at this point, unless you’re up to something fishy.

4

WHAT DO YOU WANT OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP?

If you haven’t figured it out by now, it is doubtful that you ever will. Once you get serious, you should already know what both you and your partner want. Failure to do so shows a lack of attentiveness that sets off warning signals in a woman.

5

YOU NEED A BOOB JOB

As ridiculous as it sounds, some men think that this is something that can be said to a partner. If you’re not perfect happy with your partner, which includes her breast size, it might be time to move on in life.

6

I'M NEVER GETTING MARRIED

This can kill a relationship, no matter how well it has been going. Your girl might not be ready at that moment, but there is a good chance that she sees wedding bells in your future. An Us Weekly report quoted George Clooney openly stating that he will never get married again, and he has still dated women like Elisabetta Canalis and Stacy Keibler. You are not Mr. Clooney, however, and most women will not give you the same leeway. Avoid backing yourself into this corner at all costs.

7

LOOK AT ME

Men want to appear younger and more vigorous than their actual ages, but talking about it does not prove anything. She already knows what you’re capable of, so there’s no need to brag or attempt to influence her otherwise.

8

I'LL CALL, DON'T BOTHER

"I‘ll be out of cell range." Really? Even if you’re heading out for a hunting trip in the middle of nowhere, don’t say that she shouldn’t call. You can warn her that you might be out of range, but telling her to avoid calling at all costs is a huge warning flag.

9

I'M NOT ENJOYING LIFE

It is ok to be depressed once in a while. She'll take it personal, end up blaming yourself which can cause the relationship to take a drastic turn for the worse. Men up and find help. It can be a weight issue, drinking problem, other stresses. Figure out the cause before bringing this out to her.

10

I DON'T LIKE KIDS

This might be true, but it is not something that you should boldly proclaim. She wants to be part of the decision making process, so always give her the chance. Making this statement could imply that you don’t see a future with her.

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