Setting the mood with atmosphere and ambiance.
Whether you’re ready to take a new romantic relationship to a sexual level, or trying to spice up a longterm love affair, setting the mood for lovemaking starts with atmosphere and ambiance. In fact, certain dating games and destinations are better than others at leading to breakfast in the morning.
Although there are barely any drive-ins left anywhere, there is something wholesomely sexy about a moonlit date at the drive-in movies. Forget the movie. Let nostalgic feelings of yesteryear envelope you two and relive your youth making out like teenagers. You might just wind up in the backseat!
There’s no denying the sensual appeal of money and the rush of winning big. A night at the casino gets the adrenaline pumping and stimulates the excitement that can lead you into the wee hours. Make your move when you are winning and leave before you start losing.
Dancing is the perfect way to let your body do the talking and show the object of your affection just what’s in store at the end of the night. Get busy on the dance floor and you’ll soon be getting busy on living room floor. You won’t make it to the bedroom.
DRESS TO IMPRESS!
Take your date to an elegant event and you’ll both feel sexy -- looking your best. The rule of thumb is - when a woman is wearing a sexy elegant dress, the garments underneath are matching it. Looking sharp, holding hands and showing your affection in public are essential elements for getting the sexy juices floating.
Role-playing is hot and women love wearing sexy costumes. Encourage those amorous antics by attending a costume or masquerade party. Give her plenty of time to get ready -- the better she feels about her outfit - the better the chances she'll want sex. Keep the charade going for a private, sexy after-party. Offer up some finger foods, strawberries, grapes, chocolate and cocktails for getting the mood right.
Burlesque shows and strip-clubs are no longer as frowned upon by jealous wives and girlfriends. Ladies need to hear that burlesque shows are created to celebrate woman's beauty and sexuality. Secretly, women want to know the tricks you see in the strip club. If you’re comfortable with it, try a couple's evening at a burlesque show or strip-club to get you both in the mood.
RED OR WHITE FOR A SEXY NIGHT
One sophisticated way to free your inhibitions is to attend a wine tasting together. Find a nearby romantic winery, wine bar or a wine tasting event to please your palates. Bring the bottle of her favorite one to take the party home. Plate some nuts, crackers and jelly to pair with it.
FONDUE = FOND-LING
Sharing is caring, chocolate is an aphrodisiac, and women love them both! Stay home for an evening of feeding your lover succulent fruits dripping in warm chocolate. You’ll both be licking your lips, your fingers, and each other! You don’t need fancy fondue pots to become a top chef. Follow easy directions to plan your romantic fondue night.
WET AND WILD
A foolproof way to get your sweetie out of her clothes is to go swimming. What better way to strut your stuff to entice your mate? Hit the beach, strip and get wet! Leave a little something to the imagination though, speedos are so last season.
THE SUITE LIFE
Who doesn’t feel sexy while being pampered in luxury? You don’t have to take a vacation to have a sensual slumber party at a an upscale hotel. One night in the Jacuzzi suite at a local five-star hotel will make both of you feel special, pampered and adventurous. Do not disturb!